It is a mystery why we fall in love.
It is a mystery how it happens.
It is a mystery then it comes.
It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some falls
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes
but you will never do anymore than take the life out of the experience.
Just as life itself is more than the sum of bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body
Love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share.
And just as life itself is a gift and goes in its own time,
so too, the coming of love and must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.
sometimes, hopefully, at least once in your life, the gift of love will come to you in full flower
and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all its inexpressible beauty
This is the dream that we all share.
More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them,
refusing to see that it is a gift that is freely given,
and a gift that, just as freely, moves away.
When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost
rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers.
They want to know what is wrong in them, that makes the other person no longer love them,
or they try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some things were different, love would bloom again.
They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away
and start a new life together, their love will grow
They try anything to give meaning beyond the life itself,
and until they accept its own mysterious ways they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love and to accept it.
You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you,
be gentle with yourself, there is nothing wrong with you.
Love just didnt choose to rest in the other person’s heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you dont love him,
feel honored that love came and called at your door,
but gently refuse the gift that you cannot return,
Do not take advantage.Do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you.
And all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,
even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall with another, and he falls in love with you
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or asses blame. Let it go.
There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you dont choose love. Love choose you.
All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel the way it fills to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive on you.
Give it back to the others who deem it poor in spirit.
Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.
There is where many people go wrong.
Having been so long without love, they understand love as a need.
They see their hearts as empty spaces that will be filled with love,
and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
Love has its own time, its own seasons and its own reason for coming and going.
You cannot bribe it, or coerce it or reason it to stay.
You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.
But if it chooses to leave your heart or from the heart of your loves one,
there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love has been always and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it come and live for a moment in your life.
If you keep open, It will come again.
But if you love Allah above anything
your heart will never be empty
because HE will never leave you..
and you can always count on HIM on everything ..
